Sarah
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~Everything happens for a reason~[ss:Autumn]
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Post by Sarah on Nov 17, 2009 21:13:49 GMT -5
Please excuse my rant but i'm in a lot of emotional pain right now...
why do guys feel like they can use me as a substitute until something better comes along? Send me roses and then weeks later "oh by the way i kinda met someone". Do I have "Bide awhile" tattooed on my forehead because it sure seems like it. I cannot believe i was that stupid to fall for the corny lines and kind words. People are right, i am too nice. All kindness seems to get me is pain and heartache. Well i hope he's ready for a bitch because he woke one up!
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Post by Dr Fogg on Nov 18, 2009 2:21:35 GMT -5
Aww Sarah, you make me ashamed to be a male! Just know not all men are sellfish creeps, there is a kind, sweet, honest guy searching for you this very minute. Meeting all the dross is a process we all had / have to endure in order that we sort the wheat from the chaff. Dont listen to people who say you are too nice, you cannot be too nice, it is the jewell in your crown that Mr. Right is searching for.
Luv Foggy
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Post by carousal on Nov 18, 2009 10:53:43 GMT -5
All I can offer you is a piece of advice given to me when quite young by my dear mother. Never rely on anyone for your complete happiness; angels live in heaven not here on earth. In other words keep a bit of yourself—Always. I have to be honest and say that in the early years I was in and out of relationships, a bit of a butterfly in fact. I can only offer in defence that I was up front with them all. I remember one girl saying “You’re great to go out with, but I would never marry you”, sensible girl.
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Post by Max on Nov 18, 2009 12:47:14 GMT -5
^Cari, I've had girls tell me the exact opposite I guess I have wished at times for girls to be less sensible Sarah, that guy sounds like the stereotypical guy that makes a bad name for a lot of us. Sometimes girls need to be bitchy in order to repel the assholes. Don't you worry now, you're only 20 years old and Mr. Right won't stay in hiding forever
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Myth
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Post by Myth on Feb 26, 2010 16:53:35 GMT -5
I appreciate what you folks do here. I appreciated the mods at TPS just as well. I hate that some people don't participate fairly, but some people are "fly-by-night" and I really pay them no mind until they've become more established. It's the ones with hundreds of posts that leave one word replies that irk me. Did they even read it?
I hate that my wife left me for another man, and thinks she can call me to whine when he doesn't measure up. I hate that I feel like after 12 years of marriage, I'm obligated to be there for her even though she completely devastated me. I hate that I see her with him everywhere I go and can't help but think I still love her.
I hate that the reward for doing a good job is always an increased work load.
I really really really want to rip the arms off of Rush Limbaugh and bludgeon the entire congress with them.
When someone passes you on the road, only to drive slower once they are in front of you, ONstar should make their car explode, or at least get a flat.
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Post by Jamie~poetshare.forumotion.com on Feb 26, 2010 18:59:54 GMT -5
Myth I'm right there with you on the last two. I'm very sorry to hear that happened to you; if Norm left me I'd be devastated. The heart is a wretched thing at times.
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Post by Harklight on Feb 27, 2010 4:33:53 GMT -5
You'll soon ignore the one-worder's, even if they say exalt. They don't show what impressed them about your write, which is more beneficial than a number.
It sux when any long relationship ends and I'm sorry it happened to you. Both men and women fall into this "B" category. You should feel no obligation to be at her beck and call. Good luck to you. H x
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Post by Sir Lancelot on Feb 27, 2010 8:12:38 GMT -5
little kids that get Call of duty brought for them even though the box says 18 on the side of it, then go around with those annoying little voices screaming down the mic, thinking they are all adults cos they killed you in a computer game, then start crying when you kill them.
GOD THESE BRATS REALLY SHOULD DO SOMETHING ELSE.
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Post by Artemis on Feb 27, 2010 17:26:10 GMT -5
Sometimes I wonder.
Sometimes I wonder why? Why do I bother at all? It makes me sad that people are so mean they tread all over others to achieve what?
I guess we all live and learn. I will never know why people love to hurt others so badly and so cruelly. Some people use others as stepping stones To get to where they are going Even if they are wearing spiked heels.
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Post by NewMan™ on Feb 28, 2010 16:41:16 GMT -5
darn motorcycles are driving me crazy.. a few I don't mind.. but a QUARTER MILLION of them stuck in a 20 mile radius?? and I have 8 more days of this to "enjoy".. welcome too 2010 Bike Week.. I'm already getting sick of the color black.. ooh, gosh, I gotta go buy me a tee-shirt.. anyone want it?
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Post by Artemis on Feb 28, 2010 17:37:50 GMT -5
Myth I just wanted to send you some huggies. I'm so sorry about your situation. Lifes a bitch. I hope you find some peace of mind honey, she has no right to call you like this, my advice would be to ask her to stop but of course that is your decision. Much love and take care, sincerely, Kerry xxx
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Myth
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Post by Myth on Feb 28, 2010 20:08:43 GMT -5
Kerry, You're a doll. If you were not married and across the ocean...........
It all sucked, and somedays it hurts. But if it never happened, I would not have found all my wonderful new friends. Maybe the truly sad thing is, it just didn't happen soon enough.
I'm on the mend, and it's nice to have friends that don't need a reason to care.
Michael
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Post by Artemis on Mar 1, 2010 6:43:03 GMT -5
Oh sweetie it's such a good thing to hear that you are on the mend. You are a lovely and talented person, join a poetry club and maybe you will meet a like-minded person ;D Wishing you all the best, much love Kerry xx
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Post by windowflower on Mar 1, 2010 20:58:39 GMT -5
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Post by Harklight on Mar 4, 2010 20:02:40 GMT -5
If I ever find out who starts their angle-grinder, chainsaw and rock-crusher at 6am, or blows the power out (always when I'm doing something important), I'll, I'll, I'll ... hm, shame I'm not vindictive.
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